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There’s this really cute, lanky blonde chick that lives across the street from me and I always see her in the neighbourhood. She looks about my age but I know nothing about her.
I do however have absent-minded fantasies about asking her out,,,, LOL IN WHAT UNIVERSE. WOULD I EVER…..?? can you imagine.
the worst thing about the whole “aromantic allosexual (read: heterosexual) men take advantage of women!!” idea is that it assumes that women are so helpless and lovesick, that they cannot consent to strictly sexual relationships, that apparently no woman has ever wanted just sex with no strings attached
It also erases aromatic gay men
Also… aromantic women exist, throwing even more of a wrench into their whole idea there.
The sexualizing of non-ace aros involved (including women no matter what ppl may claim) is also bizarre and nasty, as if non-ace aros only care about sex and nothing else (including the personhood of others) like. Isn’t that what the anti-ace/aro crowd claims aces here assume about non-aces, and use as justification to shit on aces+aros as a whole? But I forgot sex-shaming and sexualizing others is okay as long as it’s done by ppl who hate aces+aros
There is the “gender bread person” and now there is the “snowflake/gender dragon” 😀
thanks for the cute new fursona
fanart for the fursona, who prefers they/them pronouns and is cool with cis people, prob has a girlfriend
is also a feminist but not a radfem bc radfems are transphobic and this dragon is fucking non-binary
Holy heck this is so good and cute! Really nice soft shading that makes em look so huggably soft, and gentle expression. Wonderful job! I love it!
ooh i like them
Another beautiful rendition of them! The shapes are so pleasing and the colours are so vibrant! This is excellent!!
i didn’t spend very long on this but had to participate because i love when edge lord posts backfire like this
nonbinary disabled (one wing) feminist whos tired of your shit™
you did good! as an nb disabled feminist who is tired of this shit, I approve! here’s to making dragons a non-binary symbol
I agree, you did great! The simple but cute shapes, lack of lines and pastel colours make it seem like an illustration from a lovely childrens book. Wonderful job!!
Way to make a very bad post good and cute
Snowflake the Dragon is my friend and I love them.
I don’t have any fun with those “imagine your icon” posts anymore really.
Imagine the,,, iphone purple smiling devil emoji?
*grows a billion+ hands and puts them all on everybody’s shoulders*
Don’t be mean to otherkin.
I’m finally getting around to figuring out a way to back up my main blog. I would be absolutely devastated if my blog got deleted, knock on wood. That’d be 5 and a half years worth of memories GONE. Age 16 to 22.
I’m trying the import-blog-to-wordpress method, but it’s got around 40,500 posts to go through… as I type this, it’s so far imported 41 posts. l o l. It’s gonna be a long night. Hope it doesn’t fuck up and freeze/crash. *more wood knocking*
I designed a pokeyman. It’s a fairy/water type. Named “Pearlairy”. Its body is encrusted with pearls… for… a reason I guess… and… idk I’m too lazy to come up with stats. Someone else have at it; you have official permission from your’s truly to improve this hypothetical Pokemon. I just designed and named it l o l.
I kinda feel a little trapped when I’m surrounded by constant reminders that “narcisisstic personality disorder doesn’t automatically make someone abusive!!” and constant omission of discussion or even acknowledgement of the possible abusive behaviors that can stem from NPD
of course NPD doesn’t make someone automatically abusive towards others. of course not, okay? I’m not saying that for a second.
But it happens that my father, a.k.a. my abuser has NPD and there are things about his narcissism that are directly connected to his emotional abuse towards me and my mother. It just happens that he is narcissistic… AND abusive. Two mutually exclusive traits that can nonetheless effect the manner in which the other manifests. Meaning, the exact manner of abusive behaviour.
And I really feel like I just can’t even talk about it in depth because it’ll seem like I’m shitting on people with NPD or generalizing them, and I’m afraid my followers with NPD will think I hate them or something which isn’t the case at all.
I don’t think NPD should be stigmatized or stereotyped, but I also think discussions of narcissistic abuse, especially those constituted by victims, shouldn’t be disregarded or demonized.
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